Leather Spinsters Newsletter February 2006 Edition

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    A. Is Self-Confidence?

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Everyone seek the key to happiness outwardly
but only the wise know it lies within.!

Never mind what society says about you being an unmarried woman past a certain age. A life filled with curiosity, joy, and unimagined balance can be experienced by any and all who desire it. This journey don't have to be difficult or impossible, it's what we make of it by ridding ourselves of fears that leads to frustrated stagnation. Are you CONFIDENT, do you have what it takes to truly live life on your terms? If you think you lack the confidence you need to be the satisfied and happy woman you desire to be then February's newsletter is for you. This month we will focus on developing our confidence so that we can look beyond the familiar and feel safe doing so.

Regena English


What Is Self-Confidence?

Easy to identify, yet probably difficult to define, conceptualize, and measure what does self-confidence mean?

One of the main requirements to success, happiness and reaching your goals is confidence. Having enormous self-confidence will also be useful in just about every part of your life.

Lets get straight to the point you were not born with self-confidence, that is, self-confidence is not something innate this can be taught, nurtured and built over the years, at any stage in life.

Confidence is the personal ownership of no one; the person who has it learns it and goes on learning.

Your degree of confidence is truly the outcome of how you perceive yourself - which is eventually how people will perceive you. How people interrelate and respond to you is a reflection of how you perceive yourself.

Therefore if you dont have a high degree of self-confidence or a huge deal of self-esteem then its mostly because you are concentrating on your negative traits and on what you are doing wrong.

In other words, you are being your own worst enemy! The good thing is that you can alter this and improve your self-confidence.

The most talented person on earth has to build confidence in his talents from the foundation of faith and knowledge, like anybody else. The device will be different from one person to the other, but the necessary job is similar. Confidence and attitude are accessible to all of us according to our skills and requirements not somebody elses as long as we make use of our talents and develop them.

Self-confidence is an approach which lets individuals have positive yet reasonable viewpoints of themselves and their conditions.

Self-confident people trust their own skills and abilities, have a general sense of influence in their lives, and believe that, within reason, they will be able to do what they desire, plan, and anticipate.

Having self-confidence does not necessarily mean that people will be able to do everything.

Self-confident people do have expectations and standards that are realistic and reasonable. Even if some of their standards are not met, they remain to be positive and to accept themselves.

People who are not self-confident rely extremely on the consent of other people in order to feel good about themselves. They have a tendency to prevent taking risks because they are afraid to fail. They usually do not expect themselves to succeed.

They often place themselves down and tend to disregard or overlook remarks and praises paid to them.

On the other hand, self-confident people are willing to risk the disapproval of others because they normally believe in their own skills and abilities. They tend to accept themselves; they don't feel they have to conform in order for them to be accepted.

Self-confidence is not essentially a general trait or characteristic which permeates all aspects of a persons life. Usually, people will have some aspects of their lives where they think they are quite confident, for instance, academics and sports, while at the same time they do not feel confident at all in other fields, for example, personal appearance, social relationships, among others.

About The Author: Without confidence, you would not be able to go on and implement what you have in mind. To find out how to build up courage, improve your relationships, boost your morale, and live the life you want With confidence just visit the website: http://www.self-confidence-self-esteem.info *********************

Codi Morieta (c). All rights reserved.


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