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by Coach Andy
Let's face it. We've all been through a powerful seminar or an enlightening
personal development group of tapes and we emerge with a lightbulb above our
heads and happy thoughts such as "what a great concept! I am going to have
to use that in my life."
Flash forward a couple days or weeks later and sooner or later you notice
that you haven't done what you say you were going to do and those strategies
and concepts are another one of those great ideas that you'll get around to.
What happened? This article is designed to help you apply whatever you learn
into your life whether it is something as simple as pay yourself first or a
huge change or initiative that feels overwhelming such as quitting smoking.
Take heart, this article takes about five minutes to read, but you need to
apply the concepts within. As a coach, I help my clients to stay focused and
create strategies for their goals and I have developed structures that work
well in getting from the great idea stage to integrating it into their
lives. I would love to share in your successes from using these strategies
you can email me at coachandy@nextlevelcoaching.com
1. Do your best to corral a specific situation or area of your life to focus
on--- I have clients who learn the practical concept/strategy to visualize
your success and get overwhelmed with the many areas of their life that need
attention at the same time. The best tactic is to choose a specific focus in
your life one at a time. If you are working on financial strategies you are
most effective when you put your entire focus to work on that aspect of your
life. There is naturally going to be spillover when you improve one area of
your life since all areas are connected
2. Set a deadline for yourself for implementation, self imposed or not. Even
the word deadline sometimes makes my client stressed so you can call it a
completion date as well. I have found that we as humans need the created
pressure of a deadline to really get things accomplished. If it is on the
plate and not on the schedule it is a dream. Reporters know this strategy or
else the daily paper would be filled with poetry and finger paintings. With
a completion date you can plan backwards and it makes the idea real.
3. Brainstorm different ways that the concept will affect areas of your
life – What will the application of a sound strategy do to your bottom line
at work? How will your relationship be enhanced if you did make a rule to
listen first? How would your negotiations be enhanced if you learned to
visualize first
4. Draw up a plan (or several) step by step on how you will integrate this
concept into your life. My whole purpose is to keep my clients out of the
whirlwind syndrome and the best way to do that is with a plan or framework.
Think of it as a menu of action steps that you choose from to integrate
concepts into your life. For example, exercise daily is a wonderful axiom,
but create options and flexibility when you schedule a basketball game, walk
in the park, or just pushups during Jerry Springer.
5. Set up reminders everywhere This one is fun because you have the right to
do anything from skywriting "pay yourself first" or more interesting ideas
such as wearing a rubber band on your wrist that you pull back and let go
when you want a chocolate bar (Pavlov would be so proud) I recommend that my
clients either sign up with a reminder system online or off to make sure
that the strategy is top of mind at all times.
You can create an email message to be sent to you everyday with a reminder of what you are committed to. You can leave post-it notes on your car visor and across the house. This
short circuits the "I didn't remember system". I specifically have my exercise clothes out in the open so I have to look at them and think about my commitment to exercise rather than rationalizing it away. Go through your planner and block out on every Friday that you owe yourself x dollars in big red letters. You are only limited by your imagination.
6. Think of ways to combine areas of focus to accomplish the strategy. For
example, to learn about stock investing and exercise daily you can listen to
Warren Buffet while you are running or on a bike ride. One word of warning.
Don't get too carried away with this by talking to your old friend on the
phone while you are running 10 miles and call it effectiveness. Invite them
out for the run
7. Automate the process- In addition to reminders automation or delegation
is the key to real results. However, it can be kind of a challenge to
initiate at first. One idea is to set up with your bank that you want x
dollars taken out automatically or donate all of your leftover ho-hos and
twinkies to a food pantry to remove the temptation. The idea here is that
you don't have to think about the situation and it happens automatically.
I hope these strategies have helped you learn more ways to implement what
you know into what you live. I have listed more resources below as well from
our corner of the cyber-universe. Please contact me at
coachandy@nextlevelcoaching.com Where motivation ends&coaching begins---fire your guru and hire a coach!!
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Coach Andy, Certified Strategist helps professionals,entrepreneurs, and
regular people develop Next Level strategies for marketing, balance, and
increased fulfillment in their lives. You can learn more by visiting our
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